Anyone can learn to be more mindful, it is an innate capacity we all have. Mindfulness training cultivates this capacity with mindfulness meditations and mini mindfulness practices that can be built into our days.
Mindfulness meditation involves setting time aside to practice being aware or our present moment experience. We sit quietly and focus lightly on a mindfulness support, often the sensations of the breath, or sounds around us. Every time we notice that our attention has wandered away from the support and become caught up in thinking, we gently and kindly bring it back. In this way we develop our ability to let go of thoughts and come back to the present. By doing this work gently and kindly, we also cultivate our ability to be kind and accepting towards ourselves, whatever we experience.
We can cultivate mindfulness in the midst of our day-to-day life by deliberately doing small things mindfully. For example, we could choose to drink a cup of tea mindfully, paying attention to the detail of the experience, to what we see, smell, taste and feel, and bringing our mind back to the experience whenever it wanders off into thinking. Being mindful of daily experiences can be very calming as well as allowing us to notice and appreciate the good things in our lives.